• Adult Children Exposed to Domestic Violence
  • Runaway & Homeless Youth Toolkit
  • Prevent Intimate Partner Violence
  • Violence Against Women Resource Library
  • Domestic Violence and Housing Technical Assistance Consortium
  • Domestic Violence Awareness Project
  • Building Comprehensive Solutions
  • National Resource Center on Domestic Violence

Key Services Issues

Another potential barrier to collaboration flows from key services issues that may be confusing to or misunderstood by RHY program providers when they seek services for youth with whom they are working.

These include issues arising from the eligibility criteria used by DV/SA programs related to services to minors, a minor’s access to legal protections, and requirements related to confidentiality and child abuse reporting, all of which are discussed in more detail below.

As partnerships between RHY and DV/SA programs have been built, a shared understanding of the history and implications of these services issues has developed, as well as new approaches that better address the realities facing runaway and homeless youth facing relationship violence and abuse.  These are explored in the remaining sections of the Toolkit.

Services to Minors: | Back to Top

Most DV/SA programs target intervention and prevention efforts to adult domestic violence victims, and primarily address dating violence efforts in two ways: 1) working with adolescents or minors who have been exposed to domestic violence and who accompany adult victims for services; and 2) implementing school-based dating violence prevention programs. The criteria used to determine who is or is not eligible for services are often defined by agency mission, policies, funding sources/limitations, and/or legislation. What does this mean for RHY providers working with young people, particularly minors?

Runaway and homeless youth who are minors may not be eligible for DV/SA program services.  In many states, there are only a few specific situations for which a minor can seek services without parental permission.  Such services generally are mental health counseling, drug and alcohol services, and family planning/contraception, but even then the law may require that the parent be notified within a set period of time.  Regulations often then define what actions the parent can or cannot take with regard to on-going service provision to a minor in these situations.

Absent specific legislation in this area, the presumption is that parents have the right to make all decisions for their minor children unless the minor is emancipated, although the definition of emancipation varies from state to state.  Emancipation may be legislatively- or judicially-defined based on each case presented to the court for determination. Therefore, many DV/SA programs have come to view services to minors, unaccompanied or permitted by a parent or by another adult, as a liability concern. Minors Access to Protection Orders

Minors’ Access to Protection Orders: | Back to Top

In the majority of states, minors cannot file for a protection order without a petitioning adult, such as a parent, guardian, family or household member, relative, guardian ad litem, any adult who lives with the minor, child protective services, or a state office such as the department of social services.  In those states that do not say who can file an order on a minor’s behalf, the court or a judge decides if an order can be obtained without the parent’s permission.  For runaway and homeless youth, involvement with the justice system or law enforcement may not be a viable option.

In addition to whether a minor can file for a protection order, state laws typically define who is eligible for a protection order, and victims of dating violence may or may not be eligible for such court orders.  If they are, the law typically sets criteria that must be met to establish that it is a dating or intimate relationship, including whether is must be romantic, sexual, intimate, and/or cohabiting, and sometimes the minimum length of time the parties must have been together.  In some instances, same gender relationships would be excluded.

Break the Cycle, a national organization committed to working with youth to end domestic and dating violence, conducted a nationwide review of each state’s civil domestic violence protection order laws and their impact on teens seeking protection from abusive relationships. The most recent State Law Report Cards and related information can be found at:

Child Abuse Reporting: | Back to Top

Generally, DV/SA program staff and volunteers are mandated reporters of child abuse to child welfare agencies, if during the provision of services they have reasonable cause to believe that a minor may be the victim of child abuse.  State mandatory reporting laws typically include the following provisions:

  1. definition of types of child abuse covered;
  2. who is considered a victim and a perpetrator;
  3. under what circumstances an individual is a mandated reporter;
  4. reporting procedures;
  5. the role and responsibilities of mandated reporter; and
  6. the time frames for when the abuse occurred and must be reported.

This may present a dilemma for a DV/SA program in two ways: 

Historically, RHY programs were developed as an alternative to the child welfare system.  Today, these programs continue to work closely with the child welfare system to deter further systemic involvement. Similarly, DV/SA programs work alongside the child welfare community to stabilize the abused parent and their children in a safe place that may or may not be within their current home environment.  However, due to different funding, legislation, regulations, and authoritative power, service provision models and an understanding of the best approaches to meet the needs of vulnerable families may at times diverge from that of the child welfare community.

Both DV/SA and RHY programs must make sure that all staff and program volunteers know the applicable state child abuse reporting laws and mandates. Advocates from both fields can use the “State Statutes” search tool on the Child Welfare Information Gateway website to find state specific laws about mandatory reporters of child abuse and neglect, at:

Confidentiality: | Back to Top

Confidentiality protections are safety focused and are not meant to create barriers to collaboration or service provision. When creating working relationships between RHY and DV/SA programs, any legally established confidentiality privilege afforded to victims of domestic violence and their children or to teen dating violence victims must be fully understood and reflected in collaborative practice.  In many instances, working together can be the most productive way to meet the needs of an individual young person; however, if the definition of confidentiality is absolute (i.e., the only exception is mandated reporting of child abuse) or qualified (exceptions broader and defined), then such partnerships must be intentionally navigated. Usually, upon the victim’s request, consent to release information can be obtained and joint case planning and cooperation can be accomplished.

There are also states whose domestic violence confidentiality statutes do not provide age parameters as part of the definition of domestic violence victim. In these situations, individual DV/SA program may decide if, under what circumstances, and the types of services they can provide to minors without parental permission or knowledge.

RHY advocates should talk to their state domestic violence coalition or network to learn more about state specific domestic violence confidentiality laws, including its application to minors.  To find the domestic violence coalition or network within your state, please visit: .

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